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ros is love driven by desire. Desire…A term used to describe the self in its longing to possess and enjoy some valued object God has created the human brain with specialized neutral systems and pleasure pain centers that govern desires, including the common drives such as hunger, thirst, rest and sex. Desire is essential to human experience. To lack basic desire, as illustrated by anorexia nervosa (a lack of the desire to eat) or inhibited sexual desire (I S D), is currently considered a mental illness that may be ruinous to human personality. The most common word for desire is derived from “thyo” meaning “to well up” or “boil”. It is also, translated as “lust” or “covetousness.”
eing armed with the preceding definitions knows subsequent statements to be true: if a father would say that he loves his daughter. Every demonstration of love has boundaries. Whether the love is presented as Phileo, Ahav, Chesed etc., there is a standard that qualifies each love group. When boundaries are crossed one has violated the social standard. If his love voice is demonstration is eros, he is a sick man. Being sincere can be wrong despite the fact that the heart impulses are real in a distorted way. A father, child in an eros relationship is “incest”. Freud defined this aspiration as “Oedipus Complex”; a desire was not to be acted upon. Eros personality mutations can born from many seeds…Name one. The act of adultery is apart of the endless list of sexually improprieties born from the “heart”.
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Oh the heart, the keeper to unrestrained PASSIONS. The heart is the advocate of and he protector for SINCERE FEELINGS. It’s a safe place for corruption… |
A parent’s love is Chesed, the caretaker. The examples the person whose behavior will carbon copy your future social responses. A parent’s love, chesed is a love that has been united from the womb. This type of unique love is evident when a true parent is willing to give their own life to atone for an offence committed by their child, who represents a piece of his own soul.
CHESED: THE CARETAKER,
THE PROTECTOR, THE NURTURER
Sincerity will justify heinous acts of immorality. A child must never be placed in a position where he or she would share the same passion designed to be exchanged, between a husband and wife.
Rationalization will distort critical signals that would reveal error, massive social dysfunction, and some variation of mental disorders.
No, being sincere does not right a wrong relationship, nor does sincerity validate the act of unnatural affection, however sincerity fuels reason. Having “good reason” qualifies mental signals. The soul sends signals which activate the psyche. The psyche molds the imagination which set in motion the body. The body moves in a configuration of its own discretion. Again sincerity does not mean correct, not to a majority, sincerity is correct for a single individual by justification.
Yes, the heart pumps more than just blood, we have to make room for a flow of,
Love Denial
Mercy Anger
Srife and Envy Deceit
Truth Kindness
Fear and Sincerity Grief
Rejection Compassion
Hate Hurt and Pain
The list is endless. Do you recognize anything?
The Ambiguity of
LOVE MUST BE CLARIFIED as
The unselfish denial of one’s self.
It is not that love is lacking something in “itself”, love desires to give of “itself” for the well being of those it loves, in spite of the fact that the recipients are undeserving. Love seeks to be reciprocated.
Love is an appetite. Love gives that it; the personality of love within you can feed itself.
Since love involves commitment for the well being of others, a responsible commitment, a faithful commitment. Love cannot be classed as primarily emotion alone. The attitude of proper fellowship involves the surrender of “the will”. The will controls choices. You, your tripartite self, (tripartite…the union of mind, body and spirit cohabitating within each of us representing the whole person) must reconcile and be in agreement if we are to succeed in exercising the proper behavior of love.
First of all, when the proper spirit speaks to the mind the right behavior signals the body and the body being fed by healthy integration says yes, and gives the okay for adequate order which renders the proper balance of love to be distributed.
If there is no reconciliation between the tripartite personalities, there will be imbalance and perhaps, multiple personality conflict. For instance, if the spirit tells the mind to stop and the mind chooses to continue walking, and the body wants to lie down, what is that? A mess!!!
And you are the only one involved.
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